Bless Our Family

May 22, 2011 under Meeting Materials

All praise to You, Lord Jesus,
Lover of children:
Bless our family,
And help us to lead our children to You.

Give us light and strength,
And courage when our task is difficult.
Let Your Spirit fill us with love and peace,
So that we may help our children to love You.

 

Lord, behold our family here assembled. 
We thank you for this place in which we dwell, 
for the love that unites us, 
for the peace accorded us this day, 
for the hope with which we expect the morrow, 
for the health, the work, the food, 
and the bright skies that make our lives delightful

 

http://www.beliefnet.com/Prayers/Catholic/Parenting/Bless-Our-Family.aspx

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The Testimony Of Catalina On The Holy Mass

April 21, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Note:  This article was referenced during What is really going on during the Mass?

 

An excerpt from the document:

 

This is the testimony that I must and want to give to the whole world,
for the greater Glory of God and for the salvation of all of those who
want to open their hearts to the Lord. It is also given so that many
souls consecrated to God will rekindle the fire of their love for Christ,
some of whom are the owners of the hands that have the power to bring
Him to our world so that He can become our nourishment. It is also
given for others so that they break lose of the “routine practice” of
receiving Him and relive the amazement of their daily encounter with
Love. And it is given so that my lay brothers and sisters from the entire
world live the greatest Miracle with their hearts: the celebration of
the Eucharist.

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The Mass from the Bible

April 21, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Note:  the following notes were compiled by Michael Copfer.   This was provided as a handout during What is really going on during the Mass?

 

“As the Mass moved on, however, something hit me. My Bible wasn’t just beside me. It was before me-in the words of the Mass! One line was Isaiah, another from the Psalms, another from Paul. The experience was over whelming. I wanted to stop everything and shout, “Hey, can I explain what’s happening from Scripture?” (Scott Hahn describing his first Mass in “The Lamb’s Supper”)

(The following list is not meant to be all inclusive but a representation):

OPENING RITE

Procession Song – Psalm 100:2

“worship the LORD with cries of gladness; come before him with joyful song.”

Procession Song – Revelations 15:3-4

“and they sang the song of Moses, the servant of God, and the song of the Lamb: “Great and wonderful are your works, Lord God almighty. Just and true are your ways, O king of the nations. Who will not fear you, Lord, or glorify your name? For you alone are holy. All the nations will come and worship before you, for your righteous acts have been revealed.”

Penitential Rite – Psalm 51:12

“A clean heart create for me, God; renew in me a steadfast spirit.”

Gloria – Luke 2:14

“Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.”

Psalm 92:2

“It is good to give thanks to the LORD, to sing praise to your name, Most High,”

THE LITURGY OF THE WORD

Mathew 4:4

“He said in reply, “It is written: ‘One does not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes forth from the mouth of God.”

Alleluia – Revelations 19:1

“After this I heard what sounded like the loud voice of a great multitude in heaven, saying: “Alleluia! Salvation, glory, and might belong to our God”

Romans 10:17

“Thus faith comes from what is heard, and what is heard comes through the word of Christ.”

Homily – 1 Peter 4:11

“Whoever preaches, let it be with the words of God”

Homily -1 Thessalonians 2:13

“And for this reason we too give thanks to God unceasingly, that, in receiving the word of God from hearing us, you received not a human word but, as it truly is, the word of God, which is now at work in you who believe.”

Profession of Faith – Hebrews 11:6

“But without faith it is impossible to please him, for anyone who approaches God must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who seek him.”

Profession of Faith – Mathew 10:32

“Everyone who acknowledges me before others I will acknowledge before my heavenly Father.”

Profession of Faith – Romans 10:9

“for, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.”

Prayers of the Faithful – Hebrews 7:25

“Therefore, he is always able to save those who approach God through him, since he lives forever to make intercession for them.”

THE LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST

Presentation of the Gifts – Malachi 3:10

“Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, That there may be food in my house, and try me in this, says the LORD of hosts: Shall I not open for you the floodgates of heaven, to pour down blessing upon you without measure?”

Priest Washes Hands – Psalm 51:4

“Wash away all my guilt; from my sin cleanse me.”

Holy, Holy, Holy – Isaiah 6:3

“Holy, holy, holy is the LORD of hosts!” they cried one to the other. “All the earth is filled with his glory!”

Holy, Holy, Holy – Revelations 4:8

“Day and night they do not stop exclaiming: “Holy, holy, holy is the Lord God almighty, who was, and who is, and who is to come.”

Hosanna – Mark 11:9-10

“Those preceding him as well as those following kept crying out: “Hosanna! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord! Blessed is the kingdom of our father David that is to come! Hosanna in the highest!”

Hosanna – Mathew 21:9

“The crowds preceding him and those following kept crying out and saying: “Hosanna to the Son of David; blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord; hosanna in the highest.”

Eucharist – Mathew 26:26-28

“While they were eating, Jesus took bread, said the blessing, broke it, and giving it to his disciples said, “Take and eat; this is my body.” Then he took a cup, gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you, for this is my blood of the covenant, which will be shed on behalf of many for the forgiveness of sins.”

Eucharist – Luke 22:17-20

“Then he took a cup, gave thanks, and said, “Take this and share it among yourselves; for I tell you (that) from this time on I shall not drink of the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes.” Then he took the bread, said the blessing, broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body, which will be given for you; do this in memory of me.” And likewise the cup after they had eaten, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which will be shed for you.”

The Lords Prayer – Mathew 6:9-13

“This is how you are to pray: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread; and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors; and do not subject us to the final test, but deliver us from the evil one.”

Sign of Peace – John 14:27

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give it to you. Do not let your hearts be troubled or afraid.”

Breaking of the Bread – John 1:29

“Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world.”

1 Corinthians 5:7

“For our paschal lamb, Christ, has been sacrificed.”

Revelations 19:9

“Then the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who have been called to the wedding feast of the Lamb.” And he said to me, “These words are true; they come from God.”

Luke 7:6-7

“And Jesus went with them, but when he was only a short distance from the house, the centurion sent friends to tell him, “Lord, do not trouble yourself, for I am not worthy to have you enter under my roof. Therefore, I did not consider myself worthy to come to you; but say the word and let my servant be healed.”

THE DISMISSAL

Mathew 28:19-20

“Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age.”

OTHER

Alter – Revelations 8:3

“Another angel came and stood at the altar … on the gold altar that was before the throne.”

Robed Clergy – Revelations 4:4

“Surrounding the throne I saw … elders sat, dressed in white garments and with gold crowns on their heads.”

Candles – Revelations 1:12-13

“I saw seven gold lampstands 13 and in the midst of the lampstands one like a son of man, wearing an ankle-length robe, with a gold sash around his chest.”

Incense – Revelations 5:8

“gold bowls filled with incense, which are the prayers of the holy ones.”

Incense – Revelations 8:3-4

“Another angel came and stood at the altar, holding a gold censer. He was given a great quantity of incense to offer, along with the prayers of all the holy ones, on the gold altar that was before the throne. The smoke of the incense along with the prayers of the holy ones went up before God from the hand of the angel.”

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Are You Getting Enough Sex?

March 29, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Here’s an interesting article that Rich forwarded on.  It reinforces a lot of the discussion we had with Dr. Bill and Deacon Dave

Men complained they weren’t getting enough sex, as did two-thirds of the women who complained – but another third of the women said they were having more sex than they wanted.

The New York Times interviewed the authors of this study who said that sex problems generally come from a failure to communicate. Apparently, if we all talked more with our partners about our dissatisfaction with our sex lives, we would be happier.

Continue reading on http://health.lifegoesstrong.com/are-you-getting-enough-sex

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Honesty Prayer

March 18, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Your Words are carved for eternity!
You have commanded the virtue of honesty,
It is the power against all deceptions.
Direct Your Spirit of honesty upon me,
That my soul may always remain stainless.
Guide my daily thoughts, words and actions,
To join those living by the Spirit of truth.
For honesty yields harmony and loyalty,
Enriching all human relationships.
By the power of Your Spirit that flourishes,
Honesty will prevail in this world! Amen

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Sex in the Marriage, As God Intended It: Meeting Materials

March 14, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Click on the link below for the handout from the meeting.

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9 Tips for Spiritual Dry Spells

March 12, 2011 under Meeting Materials

The following list was presented at our last meeting.  Read the linked article for the detailed discussion for each tip.

 http://www.conversiondiary.com/2009/07/9-tips-for-spiritual-dry-spells.html

  1. Make sure you’re not doing anything to block out God’s voice
  2. Keep praying (no, seriously, keep praying)
  3. Receive the sacraments
  4. Read inspiring spiritual books
  5. Make sure there’s not a physical cause
  6. Make sure you’re recharging your batteries
  7. Find a spiritual director
  8. Consider counseling
  9. Research the Christian understanding of spiritual dry spells
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10 Ways to Have a Vibrant Marriage

March 3, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Kevin Scott found a great article on All Pro Dad  that seems to really reinforce the message from last week.

 

1. Make a decision and be deliberate:

We tend to do what we want to do. So decide to work on your marriage. Sign a contract with yourself, or with your wife, if that helps, but avoid being haphazard regarding this kind of commitment.

2. Tell your wife you want nothing less than the best marriage possible:

Marriage communication makes all the difference. You made the decision, now speak it out loud. Say it with flowers, or another meaningful gift. There’s power in putting such a commitment into words.

3. Understand that it’s not all about you:

Actively think about marriage as a partnership, and then make sure that you don’t stop at 50% when it comes to giving. The best way to ensure you are loved eloquently is to love your wife with abandon first. Family leadership starts here.

 4. Tape this list on your bathroom mirror and commit to it every day:

- I love my wife

- I will work to bring my wife joy today

- I promise to build her up

- I will be an active listener in my marriage today

- I can’t wait to do something creative for my wife today!

5. Call your wife during the day and tell her you love her:

We tend to believe things that are repeated consistently. Take the time to tell your wife how wonderful it is to be married to her—and it will be that wonderful to be married to her.

6. Make your relationship with your wife your first priority:

It’s not about the kids; it’s about the family into which the kids are born. Children are happier when their parents are happy. Finances are better when a married couple communicates. People are physically healthier when they are in healthy relationships, especially healthy family relationships. It’s about the marriage—period!

7. Take turns coordinating one fun couple’s activity every week:

When both partners are active in terms of investing in the relationship, vibrancy is a natural by-product.

8. Schedule “us time” at least once a week, preferably twice:

The fact is that you will be more productive at work if you’re happy at home. Your volunteer work will be more effective if you don’t blow off each other in order to support the PTA or your church. Nurture the core of the family, and the family can reach out from that strength.

9. Never take one another for granted!

This is the most common reason for insipid, mediocre marriages. People just drift apart due to lack of effort. Your marriage relationship is more important than ANYTHING ELSE in which you’re involved. Invest in one another.

10. Go to school:

You’ve heard of the routine physical for your body, or the 12,000 mile service on your car, or how about the annual “well-visit” you schedule for the dog and the cat? Well, get some essential maintenance done on the marriage. Take a seminar, book a session with a counselor, or attend a couple’s retreat through your church. Be a step ahead. Keep the relationship cutting edge. Get vibrant already!

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Followup from Doctor Bill and Deacon Dave

March 3, 2011 under Meeting Materials

Dr. Bill Wester and Deacon Dave Shea collaborated on the following note after our meeting last week on Sex in the marriage, as God intended it:

One of the biggest challenges that we, as husbands, will face in our marriages is that of coming to the realization that a problem we are having in our marriage and in our relationship with our wives is beyond our ability to solve on our own; that we need outside professional help from a marriage counselor or therapist. This can be even more daunting when we believe that we need the help of a professional sex therapist.

Can you imagine how our wives would respond if we approached them with something like the following: “I think we have a serious sex problem; I think you have a serious sex problem and we just haven’t been able to deal with it on our own. We need to see a sex therapist.”

Instead, how about a softer less threatening approach where the problem is placed on our shoulders whether we think it’s there or not:

“Just the other Friday, the FATHERS’ Team had a speaker, a psychologist and sex therapist. He answered many of our questions and also indicated that some problems with sex and intimacy are best handled by a therapist. I believe that we have a problem and it concerns me a great deal because I see it hurting our relationship and our marriage. That frightens me. I think that we need this professional help and I really want you to help me and come with me to see a sex therapist. I’m afraid and I’m embarrassed and this is going to be tough, but I think we have to do it. And we can’t do it alone and I need your support. I want us to do this as a couple. I realize I’m asking a lot but I don’t think we can do this without you.”

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Sample Letter to Child

December 9, 2010 under Meeting Materials

Hi! I wanted to write you a quick note and also ask you to do something that will really help me.

First, I want to tell you just how proud I am of you! You are a great daughter, sister and a friend to so many. You have the gift’s of being creative, artistic, passionate and honest. Among the many things that you do so well, I really enjoy watching your artistic creativity, the simple little doodle drawings, the photographs and the master pieces such as the ballerina that is hanging in our Family room. You have a real flair for fashion and creativity for trying new foods and for making great meals. It was neat to see you cooking the pasta dinner the other night and knowing you wanted specific items like the Four Cheese Sauce. I am proud of you for trying sports and want to congratulate you on making the Varsity Volleyball for High School. I am proud of you for wanting your friends to hang-out and enjoy watching movies and socializing in the basement. I am proud of your effort in school and know you are going to try harder this year as good grades get you into a great college, plus auto insurance is cheaper for those that have great grades! This school year will be great as a Sophomore, with many new things in store to still try at school. Yes another new thing is you will be driving the car! You have made a big difference in mom & dad’s life! Dad really loves you and wants so much for you to realize your dreams in life.

I also want be a good Dad, but sometimes I don’t always know what to do, so I wrote out some questions that I put in this letter. I know you are a teenager and you will be sixteen in April and things are not like when you were 6. Would you do me a favor and spend some time thinking about the questions, and then answering them for me? I would really appreciate it. I want to spend more time with you and I want you to enjoy it as much as me. I respect you want to hang-out with your friends and that is cool too. But I want to do things that you would really like.

You are a great daughter, and I am proud to be your Dad. If you could answer the questions by this Sunday, give them to me and I will read them or if you just want to tell me the answers in person that is ok too. Then we can begin to talk more about things for this upcoming school year! I’m looking forward to it!

I love you,
Dad


  • What one thing Dad does really bothers you and you want Dad to stop doing?
  • What one thing have you wanted to do with Dad, but have never done?
  • What one thing would you really like Dad to teach you, or tell you, or do with you that he never has?
  • What have you done with Dad in the past that you really enjoyed, but don’t get to do enough?
  • What one thing is really on your mind that you want me to know about?

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